Thursday, December 29, 2016
STOP YOUR CHARITY!
For just one month - for January 2017 - stop all giving (except your church tithe; yes, your first 10% should go directly to your place of worship/prayer/place of faith).
Why stop? To fast. Fasting makes you slow down . . . I guess that's a pun. Slow down and think, pray, feel. About your charity - your time, talent, and treasure. What is your purpose in sharing those three most valuable personal commodities? What impact are you making with them? Is it even measurable? Does the charity even measure its impact or success and communicate that to you?
What is your mission in giving (again, not just money). That's right . . . What's your end game? Make you feel okay about yourself? For a pat on the back? Get on the major donor list? Recognition at the annual gala?
Or to make others feel good - or maybe just better? Does your effort enable the suffering of others or actually develop the person and the community? Are you in it for the short or long haul? A quick fix or a relationship? For life or legacy?
What is your mission as a steward of what you've earned or been given? Remember, its not just money, your time (which some consider more valuable), and talents. What will your legacy look like? Yep...when you're dead and gone? What will you leave the world besides your ashes? Will you steward from beyond your grave?
So stop giving for a month and fast...think...feel...pray...meditate on your God-gifted Time, Treasure, and Talent. Then write your Stewardship mission statement for 2017, and whatever exists beyond it and your life's legacy to the world. What, why, when, how, how much, for what end, and how will you know you did well in doing good?
Then, and only then . . . Give . . . As a Steward.
Steward your life, wholeheartedly and with godly joy.
Here's a link to a short post to help with your meditating and to create your mission statement to make a lasting, Kingdom impact through stewardship.
Outline your Stewardship
Friday, May 23, 2014
The Ask: It's About Vulnerablility And Trust
Several years ago I wrote a blog post about fundraising not being about the "ask." (link) That post included a TED video with Amanda Palmer, a musician who decided to trust her fans for her support. It became an act of vulnerability and trust . . . putting herself out there, even when confronted by other musicians who mocked her efforts (which actually became very successful).
I realized that nonprofits have a hard time trusting their "fans" and don't communicate their ask in ways that allow supporters to see them as transparent and vulnerable. It was then that I began to be more transparent and vulnerable to our donors. I spoke more freely about our work, our difficulties, our successes, the needs we had, and highlighting the return they recieve for their investment. I believe that is what sustained the organization through the recession—and even saw an increase in income and average gift per donor.
Now that I am consulting, many clients can't afford consulting services. Perhaps don't realize they need to invest in their organizational development, and may not trust that their outcomes will be fruitful.
This leads me to ask you to help me help them. I'm becoming vulnerable and asking for help, so that these nonprofits can get the help they need, and serve our communities. I'm seeking subsidies to provide pro bono services to nonprofits who can't afford consulting, but who can't grow without that help. Thank you.
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Sunday, May 4, 2014
Online Assessment Tools for Identifying Organizational Issues
As an Executive Director I often wanted to know how well my board and staff understood our organization’s mission and vision, and if they were being clarified well enough. I needed to assess the awareness of my board of how critical their understanding our programs and networking was to the organization and to our position in the community.
Each time I looked over an organization’s financials and fundraising, I found areas needing improving, and fundraising issues that the staff and board had not recognized had changed over time. It was that process of discovery and analysis that helped me revitalize several stagnant nonprofits and help them thrive.
It was the fresh perspective of an outsider that made the difference. In many cases a consultant is hired to show an organization’s leaders what they have been missing and help them make the right changes. Some of the leadership and/or staff may recognize the issues, but may not be able to be the agents for the needed change. Thus, the third-party consultant is engaged.
But how do small, struggling under-funded nonprofits afford the rates for an experienced consultant? They can’t, and so they keep struggling through tough organizational issues, ineffective programs, staff turnover, disconnect with the community, and loss of funding as a result. And what are the options for well-run organizations to take an occasional fresh look at their organizational dynamics and leadership?
It was recognizing these issues that led me to create several online assessment tools that provide the data nonprofits need to get the overall view of their organization and start recognizing the needed changes to make. By limiting travel and time of on-site interviews we reduce the cost and still provide a needed summary analysis to help an organization: 1. understand the stage in their life-cycle, 2. examine Staff-CEO-Board relationships, 3. measure their fundraising effectiveness.
By developing anonymous surveys administered online, I have been able to assist a number of organizations of various age, size and budget. The survey results are graphed for ease of understanding, and a brief, interpretive assessment is provided of potential action steps for further considerations. The next steps are up to your organization’s leadership and funding capabilities. You may decide to engage me or other advisor to help you move forward. In any case, you will have this very important data with which to help change your organization for the better.I invite you to take a few moments to examine my website and my background, and the four levels of low-cost assessment analysis tools I offer at www.CharisNP.com. Whether you decide to engage my services beyond the surveys is completely up to you. I am available to you to discuss how these can help your organization and help you lead quality change.
Monday, August 26, 2013
When do you need a consultant?
Sometimes a struggling organization just needs help transitioning to its next stage of growth. Perhaps a well established organization needs help re-inventing itself. Facing reality is the most difficult when leaders and staff are deeply ingrained in the present organizational culture. It becomes even harder if the leader is a founder or long-term CEO, where he or she may be sensing a loss of control or that recent changes are becoming overwhelming. A lack of positive organizational dynamics keeps many dysfunctions hidden, and people are unwilling to be the one vulnerable enough to upset the apple cart.
I will mention briefly the need for a consultant and/or interim management through a period of crisis leadership change. Addressing this will require a separate blog, but it's most critical to contract with outside assistance rather than use internal staff in such a case.
These are just a few areas of concern where an independent third party will be able to increase awareness, broker unity, and ensure the stability and sustaining of the organization’s mission. Don’t wait until you realize the need – develop relationships with those you trust and who will be ready and willing to intercede within your organization when needed. While these resources may be costly, you will save time and money with the judicious use of consultants. They will be worth it to the organization, as you will gain much more than you spend. They may be reported as an expense, but they are an asset to any organization.
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
What kind of impact do you want to make?
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Mailbox Missionaries
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
"We CAN do what we do without you, However..."
After over a decade of feeling this way, my perspective was finally confirmed by my good friend Doug Shaw in his recently released book, “The Rules of Fundraising.” Doug’s Rule #9 states: You don't have to lie to raise money [or get people to volunteer].1 This admonition is included with a few of the “little white lies” we advance, along with overstating the impact of our organization.
God is the true owner and provider of all that we have – and all that the donor and volunteer share with us. Those who share are merely His chosen stewards of what is His. I actually verbalized this a few times when thanking those who served my ministry by saying that while we could still do most our work without their involvement, their participation made it so much more meaningful and less challenging . . . and our success wouldn't be such a blessing if we weren't sharing it with them. I wondered though, if that resonated as much.
Their involvement has a direct bearing on the breadth and depth of the ministry to, and the life-change produced in, those we serve. That impact is the mantra we should voice – and not understate.
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Leveraging the Passion of our Emerging Leadership in Philanthropy
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
A Case for a New Leadership Paradigm
In this day and age, faith-based service providers and their staff need to be on the cutting edge to keep up with an ever-changing environment that challenges the sustainability of the mission and vision of an organization. In order to meet these challenges there needs to be a constant – and two critical constants are proper stewardship and increasing core competencies through accreditation.
Stewardship of the organization, program curriculum, staff resources, liabilities, finances, and board governance are paramount – and most importantly, is stewardship of the physical and spiritual health of the leader.

Artios Institute provides collaborative accreditation through coursework designed with stewardship as the focus. Through a peer cohort of fellow leaders, development staff and board members, your knowledge, skills, and capacity for change is strengthened and profound impacts are cultivated. In this two-year course, meeting two and a half days every other month for the first year and three times the second year, we will explore four foundational pillars:
- An Understanding of Biblical Stewardship, Fund Development & Advancement
- The Keys to Balanced Personal & Professional Growth of the Leader
- The Core Components of Building Boards & Effective Teams
- The Role of Strategy in Determining Vision & Direction
Review the Four Pillars Examine the CCNL Credential
Monday, April 1, 2013
Stewardship as Mission
“As steward leaders we have a mandate to rule over and subdue this creation according to God’s vision for a redeemed world...” Dr. R. Scott Rodin, author of The Steward Leader: Transforming People, Organizations and Communities
What would happen if this type of stewardship actually took place – if the people of God recognized and appropriately acted on this mandate? Do we truly believe that it is our responsibility to affect all of life – not just the hereafter? Just how would having stewardship as our mission impact our message and action?
I think the people of God need to recognize their purpose of being an extension of God’s mission (mission Dei), which the scriptures indicate restores all of creation. Perhaps a renewed theology of stewardship in the Church can be developed through a practice of reflecting on the needs of the world and our duty to live out Christ to the world as stewards of all that He owns – for which we are responsible. It is our role to serve the community in which we find ourselves – engaged and unselfishly serving the needs of others as though serving Christ – as Matthew 25:40 states, “to the extent that you did it to one of the least of my brothers, you did it to me.”
Saturday, March 2, 2013
Fundraising isn't about the ASK
The ASK is all about relationship and trust.
I have a lot of experience in nonprofit ministry wherein we are dependent upon others for support of our programs, operations, and our salary. A difficulty of most organizations in this sector is fundraising; asking people for money. I believe that is due to a lack of a focus on trust and relationships.
Much of nonprofit fundraising training and practice focuses on marketing and communication. Too much, I think. What that focus may not clearly understand is that people want to be an integral part of the doing of good – of the ministry which meets needs and changes lives. What they don’t want is to be seen and used as a “target.” But all too often nonprofits see and use their clientele and donors as targets: one to do good to, and one to fund it.
Both our recipients and our donors want to have a relationship with us – but on their terms, for their purpose. I think the secret of successfully providing services and responsible fundraising lies in how we relate to them. For both, respect must be openly given, without expectation of reciprocity. How do we provide respect? Through our relationship and building trust . . .
My learning curve began as a technical support missionary with Wycliffe Bible Translators as we learned their partnership development (i.e. fundraising) mantra of “Full Information, No Solicitation.” When Leslie and I built relationships and communicated the mission and vision of Bible Translation, this brought buy-in and people desired to trust us with their investment. It didn't hurt that we traveled across the country with our four children in a '74 VW Camper and people we stayed with saw us interact as a family, warts and all.
This paradigm was clarified for me so powerfully today through a video from the TED Conference and an unlikely teacher of the ASK, “Amanda Palmer: The art of asking” (click to view) I think you will understand as you share in Amanda’s experience in building relationship and trust as you watch.
Are you willing to become as vulnerable to, and trusting of your clientele and donors? It's what the ask is really all about.
Thursday, February 28, 2013
The Decline of Unpaid Internships
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Seeking Counsel From Failure

We won’t accept pharmaceuticals without thorough R&D and lengthy testing, so why would we accept leadership ideas or direction from someone who has never been through the trials and fire of failure?
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Heart-Response vs. Heart-Change
Bob Lupton reminds us there's a distinct difference between compassionate aid and development in his latest blog that sheds light on Christ's feeding of the multitude:
Heart-responses [to handouts] produce distinctly different behavior patterns than do heart-changes. Continual heart-responses yield diminishing returns:Read more: Bread for Life (John 6)
- Feed a person once and it elicits appreciation (oh, thank you so much);
- Feed him twice and it creates anticipation (wonder if he’s going to do it again);
- Feed him three times and it creates expectation (when is he going to do it);
- Feed him four times and it becomes an entitlement (I need it now);
- Feed him five times and it produces dependency (you can’t stop, I’m counting on it).
Saturday, March 31, 2012
we're expecting from the world what we're not doing

While I am shocked that American's spent $1.5 billion this past week on an infinitesimal chance at winning a lottery, I hold more disappointment for the Church. Why? A mere tithe of that amount could have put a huge dent in the issue of homelessness. However, the issue is rooted in a lack of stewardship.
Recent news stories are evidence of the Church’s failure to provide needed steward leadership. Faith leaders decry the recent GOP budget proposal, citing its oppression of the poor. Critics charge that it balances the budget on the back of the poor while not sufficiently taxing the wealthy. Members of the Faithful Budget Campaign demand more aid supported by increased taxation – calling on national leaders to: “act with mercy and justice by serving the common good, robustly funding support for poor and vulnerable people, both at home and abroad, and exercising proper care and keeping of the earth.” The incongruity for this writer is these leaders want the government to do what they are not doing – at least not to the extent that the historical Christian Church has done on its own.
They’ve forgotten that subsequent to Christianity becoming the accepted religion of Constantine’s empire, “government” resources supplanted the Church’s role as provider of public assistance. It was during this period that the response to needs became institutionalized as social service. What had been considered personal hospitality became separated and distant from the church and the home. Charity became so far removed from the church that in the fourth and fifth centuries John Chrysostom challenged that “hospitality remained a personal, individual responsibility as well,” urging Christians to make a place for the needy in their homes to serve “the maimed, the beggars, and the homeless.”
Even Emperor Julian (a.d. 362) provides historical evidence of Christian charity as the sole responsibility of the Church, and directed those of his own religion to “imitate Christian concern for strangers,”
“For it is disgraceful that, when no Jew ever has to beg, and the impious Galileans [Christians] support not only their own poor but ours as well, all men see that our people lack aid from us. Teach those of the Hellenic faith to contribute to public service of this sort.”
Later, John Calvin admonished the Church, for the “demise of ancient hospitality,” toward those in need:
“This office of humanity has . . . nearly ceased to be properly observed among men; for the ancient hospitality celebrated in histories, in unknown to us, and [public] inns now supply the place of accommodations for strangers.”
He warned that the increasing dependence on inns rather than on personal hospitality was an expression of human depravity.
I don’t see the Church giving nor serving as it should; many merely call for more government action. While current church-based giving has reportedly dropped by $1.2 billion last year, it’s still a reality that if Christians tithed, the resulting funding available to God’s work would be nearly 2/3rds of recent stimulus spending. But it’s not just the lack of funds at issue; it’s what ministry leaders are misspending. Currently the families of Trinity Broadcasting Network and Chrystal Cathedral are fighting over millions of assets and control of their empires. The public is treated to weekly reports of misuse of charitable donations and the breakdown of relationships in various ministries. It’s no wonder Congressional leaders on both sides of the aisle are considering capping charitable deductions – to both secular and religious organizations.
If that isn’t enough, nonprofit postage rates are at risk, as well as the definition of what constitutes a “religious” organization. Non-sectarian religious nonprofits may face raising funds without such exemptions and tax-deductible benefits; likely crushing many under fiscal collapse and dissolution.
The Church needs to do what it is supposed to do . . . without the assistance of taxpayers. I find no directive to love one’s neighbor after first raising taxes. On the contrary, we are to give unto Caesar what is Caesar’s and unto God what is God’s. To expect of the world what is our responsibility is falling short of steward leadership. To fail at stewardship is to fail in our faith.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
AGRM DC Forum on Policy and Advocacy
You see, many of the regulations that come from DC hamper fundraising and provision of services through onerous regulation and tax law. The issues we took to the offices of our
Congressional representatives involved: a cap on charitable deductions; a potential loss of nonprofit postal rate discount; fixing vehicle donation rules; and the erosion of the definition of “religious organization” by narrowing it to an ecclesiastical church. My observations of our issues and meetings with representatives are mixed.In sharing with staffers (who actually wield the power in DC), their response varied according to party and office. My meetings with two Senate staffers were met with a measure of aloofness and push-back against our issues. Even though we weren’t asking for funding, they made plain to us that our requests were clearly seen as expenditures; any reduction in tax revenue due to charitable deductions was a loss to them. As if the money was already theirs to begin with . . . and there was little admittance of savings to government services due to the services we provide. It was obvious that they saw what we do as within their preview. When one asked for the CBO “score” of our legislative issues it was evident that the gain or loss to tax revenue would be the deciding factor rather than principle. One actually began to argue with our position on religious exemption with their partisan argument of the need for government to ensure equal access, rather than address the long-standing moral exemption provided to religious organizations.
On the other hand, congressional staffers took more time and asked questions – sometimes surprised at our statistics of services provided and impact of regulations on our operations. A lot of notes were taken, and there seemed to be genuine interest in what we do and the struggle we have in this economy. Their raised level of interest was perhaps because the representatives are closer to us and our issues – if not outright concern for their constituents (and that we would take the time to visit them). When I shared that because of withdrawing principle from an investment in response to our emergency funding request, one donor paid more than 30% tax on their charitable gift, the absurdity of that issue hit home.
As mentioned earlier, it was evident who controls the inflow of information to our elected leaders. But it was brought home when I heard of one representative who, upon leaving the office for a 15 minute floor vote, asked the staffer, “This one is a YES, right?” I think we need to trust these staffers as much as those we actually elected to get our message to them.
Do I think it worth the efforts of the thousands of people who make the trek to DC each day to bring issues and requests to staffers – and hopefully to our elected representatives? I think so . . . it was obvious that some of what we shared was news to them and brought a fresh understanding of how regulations and legislation affect those of us who provide critical services to the most at risk in our communities. WE are the safety net – not government services. Although a letter can do some of that – sitting across from us, hearing our stories, and seeing our concern will, I believe, accomplish so much more . . . if only continued freedom to raise funds and serve others in the Name of Christ.
Monday, March 5, 2012
CHRISTIAN CHARITY: A Call for a Return to Missional Stewardship - Final
SUMMARY
Many of the forms of charitable exercises, while they may have been fueled by authentic Christian concern, were performed outside of the life of the church. These efforts, when taken up by a caring public, lost any sense as being ministry of the church, and became known merely as doing one’s “christian duty,” and that of the community as a whole, and ultimately, the government’s. Separating this hospitality from the duty of the people of God leaves it lacking heart. Newbigin puts it directly,
Christian programs for justice and compassion are severed from their proper roots in the liturgical and sacramental life of the congregation, and so lose their character as signs of the presence of Christ and risk becoming mere crusades fueled by a moralism that can become self-righteous. In addition, the life of the worshipping congregation, severed from its proper expression in compassionate service to the secular community around it, risks becoming a self-centered existence serving only the needs and desires of its members. (Newbigin 1995:11)
In these later years, some churches began to see “services” to the homeless and needy as an integral part of the Christian mission of the church. Many christians now see the duty in proclaiming the gospel and acting with justice as part and parcel of that gospel.
As an active participant in missio Dei, the church must then fully understand that God wants us to be His “conduit” for ministry. Alcorn points out that God having made all things equal at the start would have precluded the people of God from their duty as His conduit to the poor and needy. (Alcorn 2003:86) We need to see ourselves as the channel for God’s gifts. In C.S. Lewis’ The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe, as Aslan gifted Lucy with a healing cordial, he charged her: “If you or any of your friends is hurt, a few drops of this will restore them.” (Lewis 1978:109) As with Lucy’s gift, Abraham received a promise from God to be blessed, and he was also charged to be a blessing. (Gen 12:1-3)
What we need now is a people of God who recognizes its mission of being a provider of charity as an extension of God’s mission and not merely a duty we must perform. The dutiful giver accepts only the moral leadership of a Jesus (without divinity), whose service leads to a mere “social gospel”—as Rodin states, in doing “the Great Commandment at the expense of the Great Commission”. . . winding up working out their salvation, rather than demonstrating a living and holy Jesus to others. (Rodin 2000:68) A renewed theology of stewardship in the church can be developed through its “praxis” as it translates a reflection on the needs of the world and its duty to live out Christ to the world as stewards of all that He owns—for which it is responsible. Charles Van Engen says this praxis will lead us to comprehend how to move from “reflection” to “participation” as a steward . . . a “theology-on-the-way” to action; (quoting J. Verkuyl) “if study does not lead to participation . . . missiology has lost her humble calling.” (Engen:140-141) It is the role of the church to serve the community in which it finds itself—engaged and unselfishly serving the needs of others as though serving Christ—as Matthew 25:40 states, “to the extent that you did it to one of the least of my brothers, you did it to me.”
I would like to take this discussion one step further, into a broader stewardship role for the church. Even if we were to increase charitable giving exponentially, Dallas Willard makes an excellent point in The Spirit of the Disciplines that “charity and social welfare programs, while good and clearly our duty, cannot even begin to fulfill our responsibility as children of the light to a needy world.” He then calls upon the people of God to “assume the responsibility, under God and by his power, of owning and directing the world’s wealth and goods.” (Willard 1988:202) He points out that by doing so, with Christ the church would be able to reduce the causes of poverty. That is a level of stewardship the church has not attempted on such a large scale—and likely will not without realizing that the sacred calling of God is not just within the church, but in all vocations and careers. The church should commission men and women into “farming, industry, law, education, banking, and journalism with the same zeal previously given to evangelism and missionary work.” (Willard 1988:214)
Once the people of God are involved as stewards in influencing the marketplace for the community’s good, they can have a hand in advising public agencies in serving the truly needy. This culminates in the people of God showing how the church “enters into full participation in the rule of God where they are.” (Willard 1988:218) That is true stewardship of all that God has made and put under our authority, including social service to those in need. Religious control of social functions, as it has been in the past, can be seen as an authentic Christian response to need. P. Beyer, in Religion and Globalization states that this validates the Christian message. (Beyer 1994:197) By becoming stewards of God’s love and compassion through charity, the church becomes a centripetal force in the world. Serving societal needs as part of the soteriological effort of the church is the greatest stewardship of all God’s resources, and becomes the attracting light the world seeks. In the words of Bernhard W. Anderson, “The nations are attracted to Zion, the spiritual center, because the teaching that goes forth from that source appeals to the deeper human longings for šālom (peace, welfare). Mission is at its best when it brings something to a people that respond to their deepest desire and quest.” (Okoye 2006:116)
As our mission statement at the Long Beach Rescue Mission outlines, we seek to improve the quality of life of the city’s homeless and needy through providing reconciliation: to God, to self, and to society. Without providing all three, our work is not complete. In order to provide the “full” gospel to those who walk through our doors—and the doors of innumerable ministries at home and worldwide—the people of God must become stewards of the grace of God in their own lives—our time, treasure, and talent—in order to fully practice stewardship toward others. This requires a new perspective on possessions, ownership and personal stewardship. The people of God need to freely give of their resources with an open hand, because “the Lord needs it.” This is reason enough: when we give to the least, the last, and the lost . . . we give to our Lord and Savior.
References Cited
Alcorn, Randy. Money, Possessions and Eternity. Carol Stream: Tyndale, 2003.
Beyer, P. Religion and Globalization. Thousand Oaks: Sage, 1994.
Bosch, David J. Transforming Mission: Paradigm Shifts in Theology of Mission. Maryknoll: Orbis, 2005.
Bosch, David. "Syllabus and Reader." for MT520 Biblical Foundations of Mission. Pasadena: Fuller Theological Seminary, Winter 2004.
Guinness, Os. Doing Well and Doing Good: Money, Giving and Caring in a Free Society. Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2001.
Lewis, C.S. The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. New York: Scholastic, 1978.
Moll, Rob. "Scrooge Lives! Why we're not putting more in the offering plate. And what we can do about it." Christianity Today. October 24, 2008. http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2008/december/10.24.html (accessed August 22, 2009).
Montgomery, Helen Barrett. The Bible and Missions. Waco, TX: Baylor Press, 2009.
Newbigin, Lesslie. The Open Secret: An Introduction to the Theology of Mission. Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1995.
Nouwen, Henri. Reaching out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life. New York: Image Books, 1975.
Okoye, James. Israel and the Nations: A Mission Theology of the Old Testament. Maryknoll: Orbis Books, 2006.
Pohl, Christine D. Making Room: Recovering Hospitality as a Christian Tradition. Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1999.
Rodin, R. Scott. Stewards of the Kingdom: A Theology of Life in All its Fullness. Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press, 2000.
Stevens, R. Paul. The Other Six Days: Vocation, Work, and Ministry in Biblical Perspective. Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1999.
Van Engen, Charles E., and Shawn B. Reford. "Syllabus and Reader." for MT520 Biblical Foundations of Mission. Pasadena: Fuller Theological Seminary, Winter 2004.
Willard, Dallas. The Spirit of the Disciplines: Understanding How God Changes Lives. New York: HarperCollins, 1988.
Wilmer, Wesley. God and Your Stuff: The Vital Link Between Your Possesions and Your Soul. Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2002.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
CHRISTIAN CHARITY: A Call for a Return to Missional Stewardship - Part 6
IMPLICATIONS FOR MINISTRY
Missions continues to be considered by many as outside the local church’s concern—and it is delegated to para-church or missionary organizations. When this is the mindset, the internal role of the church primarily becomes salvation, while the role of dispensing “God’s justice” is often separated from—and outside of—the life of the church. Newbigin states that, “The effect of this is that each is robbed of its character by its separation from the other.” (Newbigin 1995:10) The church’s voice, and its role in ministry, must be designed in such a way that salvation and justice are inseparable as the mission of the church through a life of hospitality as stewards.
Hospitality as a means of ministry and an act of mission to the world is often seen as one of many programs of the church used to attract people. However, we must take care not to carry out our charitable acts in order to change others—this reduces hospitality to a tool, which, as Pohl warns, “we distort it, and the people we “welcome” know quickly that they are being used.” (Pohl 1999:145) Pohl continues her rebuke of this misuse of hospitality, sharing Henri Nouwen’s suggestion that it “is characteristic of our times,” and that our service to others will cause, “. . . suspicion that there is no one who cares and offers love without conditions, and no place where one can be vulverable without being used.” (1) The “self-centered existance” of this type of so-called ministry will cause those being served to deepen their distrust of the church and of the ministry that is being directed to them. (Newbigin 1995:11)
Historically, the ministry model of Rescue Missions (emergency services to the homeless) has been to use acts of kindness—emergency food, shelter, and clothing—to draw people in . . . in order to preach the Gospel to them. The program at most Missions requires everyone to first attend an evangelistic chapel service; the homeless must have a chance to respond to the Gospel before receiving services. Sometimes the homeless do not know if a bed is available until the after these services are provided—often leaving them few options for other accommodations for the night. The service one receives tends to become the reward for attending the chapel service. I see this order of events as violating the trust of our guests.
At both Missions I have served, heeding the warning of Pohl and Nouwen, we reversed the order of events and provide all the physical needs before the chapel service. This change ensures that even if the recipient decides to leave before chapel, we have met their basic needs as a Good Samaritan. We feel that even the extension of hospitality itself (as if to Christ) is sharing the message of the Gospel, and we can allow the Holy Spirit to draw and minister as He sees fit.
I believe the focus of our service must come solely from a desire to live out Jesus in view of those we serve. If this is our model, the gift of charitable hospitality will not be directed simply as “social service,” but an extension of the giver’s own relationship with Christ; and in response to Nouwen’s warning, we will not “use” those we serve.
That model notwithstanding, it is my experience leading two Rescue Missions, that exercising hospitality without some expectation of responsibility on the part of the recipient can quickly become enabling; the ministry will, unfortunately, be reduced to mere “social service.” Often, we see our guests responding to the level of expectation we have for them; not in a manner that we force people to respond to our hospitality, but they recognize our underlining purpose is creating an environment of community in which they can feel safe and receive healing. Pohl provides a critical connection between hospitality provided in Christian communities and the response to it:
Hospitality . . . demonstrates that important healing takes place within community. Reclaiming hospitality is an attempt to bring back the relational dimension to social service, and to highlight concern for empowerment and partnership with those who need assistance.” (Pohl 1999:162)
As the church becomes that community, it will learn that stewardship of its hospitality is not merely a matter of distributing resources but the actual life-practice of the church and its members. We need to learn about being a steward before exercising stewardship; the attitude and lifestyle will become one.
(1) Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life (New York: Image Books, 1975), 26.















